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Face to Face Leading to Distance Training

Face to Face Leading to Distance Training

Oh, how I missed the palpable energy exchange in face to face sessions! At the time of this writing I’ve been conducting face to face sessions in my dungeon for a while. The pandemic resulted in a variety of changes. Many individuals embraced the pivot to online sessions and training. Depending on one’s perspective, online sessions and distance training often maintained needed D/s and kinky connections. As the world started to open up more, so did many of our dungeon doors. Proceeding with face to face sessions has felt more profound and supercharged in a way unparalleled to any other time in my career. I’ve been even more grateful than I had been, though admittedly, I’m even more discerning of the company I keep. While that could be the topic of another blog, I can be picky as a result of my online distance training efforts and my longevity in this industry. Certain individuals I immensely enjoy have not been able to session in the flesh as a result of: distance, change of circumstances, and/or illness. The continuation of an online dynamic has enabled them to feel connected, explore, and learn more about specific interests.

As part of distance training, I assigned a certain minion the task of writing about his experiences with me. Below is his unedited writing-only broken up by images. I hope this gives you some insight into how distance training can forge a stronger bond.

“The first time I met Mistress Natalya Sadici was in 2019 by shear luck. I happened to be in Florida for sailing and decided to look into Prodommes while I was there. Mistress Natalya’s website caught my eye. I happen to be major trichophile (hair fetishist). Long beautiful hair really excites me and Mistress Natalya’s long raven locks certainly fit the bill. I contacted her via email and found that she was unique and very professional.  Obviously we discussed our shared interests but what really impressed me was her responsiveness. If you are polite and concise, she will answer every email in a timely manner. (This has not always been my experience with other Prodommes).

We agreed on a six hour session. I know you hear this all the time, but seeing Mistress Natalya face-to-face not only took my breath away but I couldn’t find my voice either. She ran her index finger slowly down my chest and asked me “Do I make you nervous?”  All I could do was utter “yes Mistress”.  From that point on time stopped and the outside world disappeared. Mistress perfectly dealt her brand of balanced torment, degradation, abandonment, and hair teasing. Without going into too much detail, I was immobilized while standing in a metal contraption in which my neck, arms and feet were secured. Mistress then proceeded with CBB and electric CBT. While I was immobilized, blindfolded, and undergoing CBT, she spent what must have been about almost an hour circling me while running her hair over my body. I was dying to smell and touch her hair but it was hopeless in the metal restraints.  All in all this was one of the best sessions I have experienced primarily because Mistress Natalya cared enough to listen and get to know me prior to our session.
I mistakenly assumed that my face-to-face session with Mistress Natalya was a one time thing. However, fast forward to late 2021 of the pandemic. During this time I became interested in long-distance chastity training since in-person sessions were limited everywhere. After a few disappointments, I dove into researching Prodommes who offered chastity training. Alas, I once again stumbled on Mistress Natalya’s website. I wrote her wondering if she remembered me from our session from almost three years ago. I was surprised that she remembered the session fondly and in detail.
Mistress Natalya provided an incredible amount of information regarding chastity and cage choice. She strongly recommended a custom made cage which was worth every penny. She then agreed to a long-distance three day interactive chastity training session.  The most important attribute of Mistress Natalya is her sincere concern for your safety.  She had some very devious ideas of what to do with the key and other implements so I wouldn’t be tempted to cheat (which I never did).   Since this was my first time in my new cage she required frequent pictures to confirm the fit was safe and there were no problems. To say that Mistress Natalya exceeded my expectations is a gross understatement!  Via WhatsApp, she continuously tormented me. My cock was literally trying to break out of my metal cage 24/7. She sent a continuous flow of hair tease videos, tasks, degrading meal instructions, and implemented a remote anal vibrator (even in public) and punishments if deemed necessary. At the end of 3 days I was totally spent yet wanting more!
I had the privilege of experiencing two more long-distance chastity sessions with Mistress Natalya. They included a 5 and 7 day session. Each session was more intense with things ramping up throughout each session. The hair teasing videos and audio messages became more and more intense until I felt like I was going to literally explode. Her voice is absolutely mesmerizing. She eventually incorporated self-bondage, CBB, nipple torture, a vibrator tied to my cage and even bondage while sleeping. She kept me to task by threatening blackmail (my fantasy) including much needed projects around the house and lifestyle changes to improve my health. I was being incentivized by her total control over my life.
I could go on and on. But the bottom line is that I will session with Mistress Natalya every chance I get. I have been spoiled and wouldn’t even consider chastity training with anyone else.”