New Images From Soul Focus Studio

While visiting Minneapolis I ended up doing a shoot with Lucas Konrad Messerer of Soul Focus Studio. If you aren’t familiar with his brilliant work, go visit his website! His images capture what many of us fantasize about…or perhaps will give you new slick and shiny dreams. I’m quite honored to have been in front of his lens.

Here are a few images from that shoot.0z8a1821




Throughout my time as both a lifestyle and Pro Domina I’ve seen things change and shift. Certain elements have gone for the better, and of course, other things for the worst. In discussing day to day occurrences and highlights with other Ladies in the lifestyle and industry, the topic of accountability has come up frequently. As of late it has been brought up constantly.

To be clear I cherish submissives and slaves. It takes a lot of strength to acquiesce power to another. In any kind of relationship communication-and clear communication-is required. When power is exchanged clear communication is magnified, as the lack of it inherently puts people in danger and not the fun kind. This could be anything from not mentioning taking a new medication to failing to tell me text messaging is no longer ok between certain hours of the day. The latter resulting in compromising my discretion with angry phone calls from a vanilla spouse or lover. Though communication on my end has to occur when you’ve done something wrong. This is where the topic of accountability comes into the picture.

At one point or another all of us have hurt someone we’ve cared about. It takes a lot of strength to admit we’ve done something wrong. It’s awful to be told we’ve failed at a task, forgotten something promised, didn’t do something correctly, or messed up something. Here’s the thing…if you’re submitting to someone and/or being trained as a slave, you will do something wrong at some point in time. Hopefully it’s not on purpose to play games and get attention in a manipulative way! Hopefully the mistake is accidental and not intentional. As a Dominant I will point a mistake out. Atonement will take place. If you’re in my service I expect you to learn from your mistakes. In other words, you will be held accountable for your actions.

I’m not sure why this is such a difficult thing for others to grasp. Lately there has been a lot of lashing out and passive aggressive behaviors taking place. In my aforementioned statements regarding talking with other Ladies, I know I’m not the only one this has happened to. This is why I’m inclined to put together this post. If you’re submitting to a Dominant and being trained, part of training is to consistently strive to be the best submissive and/or slave you can be. There’s a learning process. I learn about your interests, strengths, how you communicate, and other parts of your personality. By putting my energy into being fully present during my interactions with you I see exactly which steps are necessary to shape you into serving me in the best possible way. Since I require you to be present, you must learn about my tastes, how I want things done, and my values. If you slip up, I tell you. It’s a time to realize what you’ve done wrong and change your behavior. It’s never the time to lash out, make excuses, and take out insecurities on me or any Dominant you’re serving. If you’re not held accountable for your actions, there’s no power exchange. It’s not D/s anymore. Lashing out and passive aggressive behavior is not only disrespectful; it undermines trust…trust that you can communicate, that you can learn from mistakes, are accepting and value the D/s dynamic, and don’t inherently have anger issues that could become dangerous.

This brings me back to my point about strength in submission. Being held accountable for your actions can be an emotionally trying thing. Think of it this way: you’re held to certain standards at your job or within your career. When you submit there are certain standards I hold you to as well. While play and submission is cathartic and a lovely escape from the monotony, mundane, and outside stressors of life; in no way should utter escapism and an inability to be held accountable for your actions enter the D/s equation. Doing so has a negative impact on me, and the point of your submission is to make me happy while enhancing my life in some way. To be blunt, if you have a problem with being held accountable, you lack the strength to submit in a positive and effective manner. Work on yourself to have this strength before attempting to submit to me or any other Dominant.

New video update: “Overindulgent birthday: OTK spanking”

For the most part I have gotten settled into My new home in South Florida. What does that mean? Filming more content has occurred! The first in a series is now available in My clips4sale store “Overindulgent birthday: OTK spanking”

Mistress Natalya Sadici summons Her spanko to receive his birthday spankings. Though She’s heard from reliable sources he’s been overindulging on wine earlier in the month. This is unacceptable! The spanko is put over Her knee for a thorough OTK comeuppance…with one twist. Spankings aren’t the only thing he’ll receive on his reddened backside. A full evening of correction is in store. Mistress Michelle Lacy will be joining later on. As Mistress Natalya has him struggling over Her knee, there’s more to come as this series continues! This will be one evening he won’t forget.


Travel dates: South Florida and Minneapolis

It’s the season for fetish parties! I will be heading back down to South Florida to attend Fetish Factory Anniversary Weekend from May 25th-31st. A select number of sessions are available during this time, and double Domme sessions are available with Mistress Michelle Lacy. This will be My first time attending a Fetish Factory Anniversary Weekend, as it coincides with IML here in Chicago…yes, I’m doing a bit of a change this year. I’m hoping everyone has an excellent time at IML while I’m in Florida!

June 3rd-8th I’ll be in Minneapolis surrounding the Minneapolis Rubber Ball. It’s been a little while since I’ve performed, and I’m excited to hit the stage for this event! I look forward to seeing many of you there. Double Domme sessions will be available after the event with Mistress Jean Bardot. Be sure to follow the link to get in touch and reserve your time to serve Us.

Video Update: “Eager Foot slave”

The following clip is now available in My clips4sale store Sadici Studios

“Eager Foot slave”

Mistress Natalya Sadici and Mistress Michelle Lacy allow bart to worship Their stocking clad feet. When bart attempts to play with himself after inhaling the aroma of Their feet, Mistress Michelle grabs his balls and smacks his cock around. There is one rule here: do as you’re told! The Mistresses torment bart by tweaking his nipples with Their toes, stomping on his cock, and smacking him in the face Their feet. Since bart becomes more aroused after the Mistress’s stockings come off, the decision is made to put him in chastity. As Mistress Natalya instructs him to worship Her bare feet, Mistress Michelle delivers a few kicks to his balls to put on the metal chastity device.


Video Updates: “Suffer For Our Heels” and “Smaller Than a Cigarette”

The following videos are now available in My clips4sale store:

Suffer For Our Heels

Mistress Natalya Sadici and Mistress Michelle Lacy want bart to worship Their high heels…but there’s always a price to pay for the privilege! In order to ensure proper attention is given Mistress Natalya presses Her heel into bart’s balls while he sucks on Mistress Michelle’s black stiletto. When the Ladies switch places Mistress Michelle delivers kicks to his balls as bart is made to deep throat Mistress Natalya’s heel. As the heel digs into bart’s cock more enthusiasm is shown, but there’s a consequence when bart touches Mistress Natalya’s stocking clad ankle without permission.

Smaller Than a Cigarette

I know you’re always drawn to Women-Dominant Women-that smoke. There’s something else though. No matter how excited you are by the combination of stockings, high heels, opera length gloves, and red lipstick on cigarette butts, you can’t seem to show anything adequate between your legs. I’m going to indulge on this cigarette, and maybe as it burns down that thing will surpass it in size. Go ahead. Keep playing with yourself. If you fail in your efforts, I know exactly what to do…

Video Update: “Trained foot slave”

The following video is now available in My clips4sale store here: Sadici Studios

“Trained foot slave”

The patient and unobtrusive slaves get certain treats. Since you’ve been quiet and waiting for My day to end, you will get to worship My feet. As I slip My perfectly pedicured size 9 feet out of these high heels, I want you to drink in the view of My heels, high arches, and toes. I expect you to follow instructions and give My feet the adoration they deserve. If you do not, there will be consequences…


Video Update: “The Cock Inside My Lover”

The following clip is now available at Sadici Studios:

“The Cock Inside My Lover”

My latex clad body is exciting to see, but is that all you have between your legs? That’s grossly inadequate. This is something I wanted to talk to you about-how you can’t possibly compare to the silicone cock I just used on My Lady lover. Go ahead and smell it…smell Her on this dick. I’m going to put a condom on this before I shove it down your throat. No, you’re absolutely not worthy of even tasting a Woman. I’m going to throat fuck you while you have one last orgasm. That little thing will be locked away so you accept your fate as My bitch.


March 17th-21st visit to Goddess Cheyenne in Atlanta!

I will be visiting Goddess Cheyenne in Atlanta March 17th-21st! Solo as well as double Domme sessions are available during this time. As I type this Our schedule is filling up quite nicely. With that said, don’t miss out on your opportunity to session with Us this time around. To arrange servitude, go to and fill out Goddess Cheyenne’s contact form.

For those of you who’ve only seen the top ranking videos of Us together on clips4sale, this is your chance to serve in person. Goddess Cheyenne put together a great YouTube video for My Atlanta visit. It can be viewed here:

Session booking protocol aka the “how to get down” post

rubberstraponstill3As more and more fresh blood comes into the scene I find it increasingly important to type out this blog. Why is this called the, “Session booking protocol aka the ‘how to get down’ post”? The content of this has been inspired not only by My frequent travels to different cities, but My fellow Pro Dommes tweets, emails, and conversations We’ve had both in person and over the phone. It is inspired by you, potential client-the ones who have a difficult time mustering the courage to book a session. Whether this is your first ever session, or your first ever session with Me; keep reading. There is essential information here!

What do I mean by, “how to get down”? Before the onset of social media and the internet, it was difficult to book a session with a Pro Domina. Potential slaves had to go through all sorts of hoops. There were ads in print magazines. These ads often required a potential slave to send a hand written letter with a self addressed stamped envelope to the Lady you’d like to see. Given the amount of time it took to send this correspondence and be awarded a session, the potential slave wanted to get it right at the first attempt. A proper first impression was required. Sending your interests, boundaries, and health information was paramount. Addressing a Lady by Her preferred title was a part of this interaction. In other words, sessions were an indulgence rather than a compulsion. To “get down”-have a session-protocol was adhered to.

Of course it is currently the digital age. Do you know how lucky you are now, slave? For those of you old enough to remember going through this process, things are obviously much easier. While I’ve been a Pro Domina for 12 years, My frequent travels have awarded Me conversations with those describing how things once were. Currently I have a phone where I can press a button, speak into it, and within seconds I can find anything I desire. Years ago this was not the case. Great efforts and lengths for research had to be made. Our digital age has sadly made so many compulsive and lazy. My intent in writing this is to give extra information, a specific place of reference, and to remind you that even though communication can be instantaneous, you only get one chance to make a first impression. Make sure it’s a good one.

I mentioned social media earlier, and will stress a point. For Me (and I can only speak for Myself here) social media is meant as a gateway. My website is listed in every piece of social media I have. To gain information, all you need to do is go into My profile and click on the link to My website. I don’t negotiate sessions via social media. The planning process over the years for My website has been time consuming. It is important to Me that information to answer many of your questions is clearly listed. This way I don’t have to answer the same set of questions over and over again. I can then focus on what makes you personally tick and craft an experience surrounding where I’d like to take you on your FemDom journey.

By doing this research, you will see the following:

1. How I prefer to be addressed: Mistress Natalya (this is how your correspondence should begin)

2. My preferred method of contact: email to

3. Where I’m currently located and My travel schedule

4. My interests and what absolutely is NOT offered in My sessions

I’m going to give you more detailed information on what should be included in your correspondence and why. It’s important to understand exactly what you’re looking for. Remember: your life is in My hands during the session. I take this responsibility very seriously and you should too.

In your initial email include the following:

1. Proper address of Me-“Mistress Natalya” is a sign of respect

2. Your name-include your first name as well as any social media aliases and message board screen names. Yes, I research you just as you should have done your research on Me.

3. How you heard about Me-I have ads and links everywhere. It’s really wonderful to know which ads are working as well as what information you’ve seen already. It’s not uncommon to hear that another Lady or member of the scene referred you. If that’s the case, I like to thank the person who spoke highly of Me. I can’t give proper thanks unless it’s stated who that person was.

4. What you would like to explore in session, interests, and fetishes-if I have no idea what you’re looking for, I don’t want to pry it out of you. Clear communication is key to having a great session experience. If you’re new, definitely say so! Describing what you think and fantasize about is a huge help. Be specific. Saying, “I want to be Dominated”, is vague and says nothing. Listing specific activities such as: CBT, bondage, or spanking is what I mean here.

5. Limits-these are things I absolutely can’t do to you. Even though My sessions are a power exchange, I take control ethically. Having certain activities that are explored only after developing a rapport is perfectly acceptable. I take great joy in expanding horizons and limits, however, I need to know what your limits are and what can be expanded!

6. Any health issues or medications you’re currently taking-Often the first thing that pops into someone’s mind is, “I don’t have any STDs”. Things such as a previous shoulder injury, bad back, or knees effect bondage positions I may put you into. Taking Cialis, or any other erectile enhancements greatly impacts sessions. I need to know these things to take certain precautions. Even though you may think something is minor, list it. Part of being a scene professional is knowing how different injuries and health issues can impact BDSM exploration. If you aren’t honest and transparent about this, not only do you put yourself at risk, but you put Me and My business at risk.

7. The day, time, and session length desired-I am a full time Professional Dominatrix. Going back and forth about “what works best for My schedule”, is not something I care to get into. Communicating specifically when you’d like to session means you’ll be taken more seriously, and your correspondence will be answered as soon as possible. It often helps to state it in the subject of your email. An example of this is: “Chicago session inquiry 8/25”.  I require a minimum notice of 24 hours for first time sessions. Proper planning is always best. If you’re wanting to session for multiple hours, it’s best to give as much advance notice as possible. I require a deposit for session bookings and go over this process once the session is negotiated.

Be sure to use proper grammar and spelling. Emails to Me must be given the same attention and care correspondence to another business professionals would be given. Type out, “You”. Capitalize, “Mistress Natalya”. Think of the questions you’re about to ask in correspondence, but make sure these questions aren’t already answered on My website.

During our email exchanges, answer ALL of My questions. I have a reason for them. Picking and choosing which questions are answered is disrespectful. Follow My instructions to the letter, and the session will be positive experience. There is no dodging My protocol or working around it. Even if you’re booking a fetish exploration session, you are still giving up power and control because I craft the experience.

I still have My phone number listed in ads and on My website. This is due to knowing technology glitches can occur and I travel frequently. It is never acceptable to text message Me as initial contact. My phone hours are clearly listed on My website. Follow them. If you are calling in lieu of reading My website information, I will quickly end the call. Phone calls are reserved for specific session bookings. If you are unsure of your schedule, don’t call Me.

Goddess Cheyenne has written a wonderful book which not only enables you as a submissive male to make an excellent first impression on a FemDom, but also to recognize fact from fiction in FemDom advertising. I highly suggest reading it, and you can find it here:

I look forward to hearing from you, slave, and wish you the best on your FemDom journey.