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I gave one of my minions a research assignment about chastity.

I gave one of my minions a research assignment about chastity.

Since I’m impressed with both his writing and desire to impress me, I wanted to share this information here.

History of Male Chastity

I must disclose that I am writing this research paper under duress. I am in bondage, gagged, my balls are tied down and I am gagged. May I just say that this is an ideal incentive as this paper is, indeed, about the history of male chastity. I, myself, love to be in chastity. The reasons will hopefully become clear after reading this paper.
Usually when one thinks of chastity belts they think of females. After all, we have all heard stories of maidens put in a metal chastity device while her heroic knight goes off to war. In reality, most of these are myths. However, what is not a myth, is the male chastity belt.
If one dives into the history of male chastity, one will find there are two distinct histories. First, there were male chastity belts for health and moral reasons. For instance, it was once thought that masturbation was a sure road to insanity. The other history of male chastity involves a fetish. Many men desire to be in chastity, especially at the hands of a dominant woman. This report will cover history of forced chastity of the Victorian era as well as that of male chastity fetishism.

History of Male Chastity Devices
The first patented chastity device was known as the “self protector”. The device was patented by Daniel Cook in 1870. It was a means of preventing masturbation in children.
In 1907, Ellen Perkins patented the “sexual armor.” Perkins wrote that masturbation was one of the most common causes of insanity, imbecility, and feeble mindedness, especially in youth.
A penis cage was patented by Henry Tunnessen in 1909 to prevent wet dreams by waking the person in case of an erection. I could not find the original patent but a crude picture (Amanda Hess, 2010 An Illustrated History of Male Chastity Devices) resembles an archaic version of Kali’s Teeth, a modern device which is worn around the penis and has metal spikes on the inside causing pain when an erection occurs. `
A full-body approach to prevent the male or female from touching his or her genitals while sleeping was patented by Allan Risely in 1932. The design is extremely complex. If one is interested, the patent number is 1865280. The beauty of this device is that it was constructed to resemble an ordinary sleeping garment so there would be no embarrassment while wearing it.
More recently, in 2004, Gines Sanchez Gomez patented the “protective tube harness.” The patent is described as “a protective tube and harness for the masculine member. The tube continues with a hinge with a hole at their end. A padlock fixes the hinge and the external tube.” In simple terms, this device is very similar to the more current designs by fancy steel (see www.fancysteel.com). This device was important because, from my research, it is the first device, in the words of Gomez, to be designed specifically for “the entertainment field, essentially of erotic-games. Based on my research, this may represent the beginning of male chastity fetishism.

Male Chastity Fetishism
One begs the question, why do (some) men love chastity? There are literally hundreds of products to choose from including metal, plastic, silicone, resin, and smart devices controlled by an app. Chastity kink is a broad spectrum, ranging from foreplay to a full-blown lifestyle in which the keys to the cage are controlled by a partner for days or months. (Abby Moss, Men’s Health, 2021).
Moss also interviewed a man that said chastity made him shift his focus to other erogenous zones such as his nipples and ass since he could not stimulate his penis. On a personal note, I can certainly attest to this. Mistress Natalya Sadici has had me in chastity numerous times. She has taught me how to appreciate rubbing my nipples as well as appreciate anal play (including remote anal play).
Gigi Engle, author of All the F*cking Mistakes: A guide to Sex, Love, and Life”, men may feel pressured by gender norms to behave in certain ways. Chastity can offer a safe escape. “It comes, in part, from a desire to give over control, to escape from your role.”
Kristan X of Lascivity.co.uk has published a great article – A Simple Guide to Male Chastity. In her article, she discusses the top reasons men enjoy chastity:
1. Giving up control
2. It’s humiliating
3. It focuses the mind
4. It’s hot
5. Better (but less frequent) orgasms
For me, it is all about giving up control. I love being controlled by a dominant female. Being in a cage, allows me to be controlled 24/7.

Types of Chastity Cages
It seems that every day there is a new chastity cage available (a better mouse trap so to speak). The first time I decided to try chastity, I became very overwhelmed. I ended up wasting a lot of money buying and trying out cages that did not work for one or several reasons. It was Mistress Natalya Sadici who recommended I buy a custom-made cage from Mature Metal. It was not cheap but it was worth every penny.
The following are some of the more common types of cages:
1. Plastic Cages – To my knowledge these were among the first cages to be mass produced as male chastity became popular on the BDSM scene. The CB chastity devices are still among the most popular. They were invented and patented by Frank and Doris Miller, a husband-and-wife team. The CB 2000 was their first product and they have since released many updated versions. Jon Stewart did a comedy skit on an interview they did. It was supposed to be funny, and I suppose it was to those that do not appreciate being caged. That being said, it is informative as to the reason behind their decision to invent the CB2000. If interested, the website is https://www.cc.com/video/2e49wg/the-daily-show-with-jon-stewart-nut-case.

2. Silicone Cages – These are similar to plastic cages but are a bit more flexible and skin tight. Some of the silicone “cages” are not actually cages. They are toys that fit over your cock to give a firmer or longer-lasting erection.

3. Steel Cages – These are clean and hygienic and also very strict. Again, there are hundreds to choose from. Steel is by far my favorite. They are easier to clean while wearing and also are more inescapable. Personally, I recommend Mature Metal for a custom cage. They have great service. I love my cage (The Queen’s Keep). They also have the option of punishment pins which brings the “fun” to a whole new level. Mark and Rebecca’s “All about Sex” podcast did an excellent interview with William from Mature Metal. It is well worth listening to. There is a link to the interview on the www.MatureMetal.com website.

4. Smart Cages – These are app-controlled cages. The lock can be controlled by a key-holder thousands of miles away. The Cell Mate is the first on the market. This is a great idea but still needs some improvement.

In addition to these “normal” cages, there are also other types of creative cages including, but not limited to sissy cages, vibrating cages, harness cages, nub cages, and cruel chastity cages with spikes, electricity, or ultra-restrictive. There are even custom 3-D printed cages.

Summary and Personal Note
Male chastity has been around since the 16th century but only recently has it taken off as a fetish. The number of manufacturers and brands has grown exponentially since the year 2000. There are designs, colors, materials, and sizes to suit any fetishist. As mentioned previously, I have a strong preference for metal chastity cages, specifically custom made. One will find themselves very frustrated with the wasted time and money trying non-custom models. However, if money is an issue, it may be worth trying one of the less expensive models such as the CB series.
As explained above, there are many psychological reasons that so many men and women love male chastity. The love of being controlled and humiliated are two of the most common reasons. It is a very welcome extension to BSDM play. The key (pun intended) is to find a skilled experienced keyholder. I have been very fortunate to stumble upon Mistress Natalya Sadici of Florida. I would never trust anyone else.
In my research, I did a search for chastity cage patents. The number of patents is overwhelming. It is evident that male chastity fetishism is not a passing fad but is here to stay. I, for one, am very excited about my many chastity experiences to come.

Locktober Leads To Your New Life

Locktober Leads To Your New Life

In a poll on social media 53% of people agreed with the statement, “chastity is a way of life”. This says a few things. For over 15 years I’ve been locking male creatures in chastity. Much like you, they’re drawn to the depth and breadth of my experience as well as my controlling nature. Though Locktober isn’t merely a challenge. It’s a slippery slope into something much more. Things start to get interesting by day 30 of lockup. Having your bits under firm lock and key is a symbol of our bond. Without your chastity device you’ll feel strange. I’ve picked out a device for you while we wait for the arrival of your custom made one. Each Locktober from now on will be an anniversary of your ultimate submission.

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Unlocked For Electro Sadism

Unlocked For Electro Sadism

My rubber gimp’s eyes follow his chastity key as he remains plugged with the Edge 2. All of the teasing has resulted in him testing the confines of his cock prison to no avail. Though his unlocking doesn’t mean he’ll have a release. I have so many more buttons to press with the addition of electro cock and ball torment. As I crank up his agony, his hungry ass is teased relentlessly. Drinking in his moans, grunts and whimpers, I feel his body shake. As his cock pulses with the electrical current, I know there’s no place he’d rather be. This is sensory overload at its finest, and I’ll be railing his ass with my strap on next…

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Pressing All his Buttons

Pressing All his Buttons

FemDom from the inside out is the order of the day! I’ve inserted the Edge 2 plug into my chaste rubber gimp’s wanton hole. Restrained in a rubber straight jacket, locked in a custom chastity device for 90 days, and lustfully looking at my shiny latex curves-he’s about to go on a wild ride. With a simple touch of a button I control whether or not he has a prostate orgasm. The audio picks up how strong the Edge 2 vibrates inside him. Though that’s not enough. I press a vibrator against his cock prison. In feeling stimulation internally and externally he’s edged over and over. Does he achieve an explosive cock and prostate orgasm? Or is he edged over and over until he’s driven mad? I ultimately press all his buttons controlling him from the inside out.

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Tales From the Lock: Eternal Longings

Tales From the Lock: Eternal Longings

There are so many things to look forward to when locked long term. Are your eyes gravitating towards the keys hanging in my cleavage? Even if you glance for a split second, I notice. At a certain point all of my chaste minion long for the same things. The desire to be penetrated increases. Though this next, “Tale From the Lock” involves someone who was at the beginning of his chastity journey. It involves: a vibrating butt plug, a glimpse of what he’ll never have, and a certain fluid. There’s a reason almost all my latex has a zipper in a specific area.

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90 Day Rubber gimp Lockup

90 Day Rubber gimp Lockup

It’s been 90 days since my chaste rubber gimp has had a release. I keep him perpetually under firm lock and key. Can you imagine what that would be like? Straining, struggling, and pulsing against the confines of his cock prison; I’ve had him in a variety of service situations. Though his key is always visible-dangling between my breasts. As I continuously tease him with my latex gloved finger, a vibrator, and more; I want you to really understand the reality of his and your situation. This is his reality, and it will ultimately be yours as well.

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I Define Your Sexuality

I Define Your Sexuality

For as long as you can remember tight shiny clothing, high heels, and boots caused a deep yearning inside you. Eventually it all made sense, didn’t it? You associated these things with power. With the inexplicable urge to drop to your knees and do whatever you were told, you finally found your way into FemDom. Those first steps were awkward, weren’t they? You quickly realized not all women who wear these things were Dominant. Eventually you found me. In handing over the keys to your submission, you also quickly handed over the keys to your chastity. Discovering it’s far more fulfilling to follow your true nature, your sexual identity is etched in stone. I define it, and I’ll do whatever I want to your body.

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Face to Face Leading to Distance Training

Face to Face Leading to Distance Training

Oh, how I missed the palpable energy exchange in face to face sessions! At the time of this writing I’ve been conducting face to face sessions in my dungeon for a while. The pandemic resulted in a variety of changes. Many individuals embraced the pivot to online sessions and training. Depending on one’s perspective, online sessions and distance training often maintained needed D/s and kinky connections. As the world started to open up more, so did many of our dungeon doors. Proceeding with face to face sessions has felt more profound and supercharged in a way unparalleled to any other time in my career. I’ve been even more grateful than I had been, though admittedly, I’m even more discerning of the company I keep. While that could be the topic of another blog, I can be picky as a result of my online distance training efforts and my longevity in this industry. Certain individuals I immensely enjoy have not been able to session in the flesh as a result of: distance, change of circumstances, and/or illness. The continuation of an online dynamic has enabled them to feel connected, explore, and learn more about specific interests.

As part of distance training, I assigned a certain minion the task of writing about his experiences with me. Below is his unedited writing-only broken up by images. I hope this gives you some insight into how distance training can forge a stronger bond.

“The first time I met Mistress Natalya Sadici was in 2019 by shear luck. I happened to be in Florida for sailing and decided to look into Prodommes while I was there. Mistress Natalya’s website caught my eye. I happen to be major trichophile (hair fetishist). Long beautiful hair really excites me and Mistress Natalya’s long raven locks certainly fit the bill. I contacted her via email and found that she was unique and very professional.  Obviously we discussed our shared interests but what really impressed me was her responsiveness. If you are polite and concise, she will answer every email in a timely manner. (This has not always been my experience with other Prodommes).

We agreed on a six hour session. I know you hear this all the time, but seeing Mistress Natalya face-to-face not only took my breath away but I couldn’t find my voice either. She ran her index finger slowly down my chest and asked me “Do I make you nervous?”  All I could do was utter “yes Mistress”.  From that point on time stopped and the outside world disappeared. Mistress perfectly dealt her brand of balanced torment, degradation, abandonment, and hair teasing. Without going into too much detail, I was immobilized while standing in a metal contraption in which my neck, arms and feet were secured. Mistress then proceeded with CBB and electric CBT. While I was immobilized, blindfolded, and undergoing CBT, she spent what must have been about almost an hour circling me while running her hair over my body. I was dying to smell and touch her hair but it was hopeless in the metal restraints.  All in all this was one of the best sessions I have experienced primarily because Mistress Natalya cared enough to listen and get to know me prior to our session.
I mistakenly assumed that my face-to-face session with Mistress Natalya was a one time thing. However, fast forward to late 2021 of the pandemic. During this time I became interested in long-distance chastity training since in-person sessions were limited everywhere. After a few disappointments, I dove into researching Prodommes who offered chastity training. Alas, I once again stumbled on Mistress Natalya’s website. I wrote her wondering if she remembered me from our session from almost three years ago. I was surprised that she remembered the session fondly and in detail.
Mistress Natalya provided an incredible amount of information regarding chastity and cage choice. She strongly recommended a custom made cage which was worth every penny. She then agreed to a long-distance three day interactive chastity training session.  The most important attribute of Mistress Natalya is her sincere concern for your safety.  She had some very devious ideas of what to do with the key and other implements so I wouldn’t be tempted to cheat (which I never did).   Since this was my first time in my new cage she required frequent pictures to confirm the fit was safe and there were no problems. To say that Mistress Natalya exceeded my expectations is a gross understatement!  Via WhatsApp, she continuously tormented me. My cock was literally trying to break out of my metal cage 24/7. She sent a continuous flow of hair tease videos, tasks, degrading meal instructions, and implemented a remote anal vibrator (even in public) and punishments if deemed necessary. At the end of 3 days I was totally spent yet wanting more!
I had the privilege of experiencing two more long-distance chastity sessions with Mistress Natalya. They included a 5 and 7 day session. Each session was more intense with things ramping up throughout each session. The hair teasing videos and audio messages became more and more intense until I felt like I was going to literally explode. Her voice is absolutely mesmerizing. She eventually incorporated self-bondage, CBB, nipple torture, a vibrator tied to my cage and even bondage while sleeping. She kept me to task by threatening blackmail (my fantasy) including much needed projects around the house and lifestyle changes to improve my health. I was being incentivized by her total control over my life.
I could go on and on. But the bottom line is that I will session with Mistress Natalya every chance I get. I have been spoiled and wouldn’t even consider chastity training with anyone else.”

Tales From the Lock: Foot Worship Reward

Tales From the Lock: Foot Worship Reward

This particular, “Tale From the Lock” articulates what I like to call, “chastity Stockholm Syndrome”. I am a sadist, and that extends to crafting scenarios where pleasure is painfully out of reach. My chaste minion had a particular affinity towards my feet. For a long time I wouldn’t let him touch them. I saved a particularly devious foot tease for a special occasion. As I tease you with my feet, would you have the same reaction? How would you respond to covertly perverse things in public?

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Chastity Emasculation

Chastity Emasculation

***This was a custom video***

Between my sultry voice and burgundy velveteen curves, I easily overtake your mind and body. The minuscule appendage between your legs results in such swift control. Though I’m relieved chastity devices can be made in such tiny sizes. The key is almost larger than the device itself! As I continuously tease you with my body, you have no choice but to be locked in chastity. Lured into the cold hard steel of your cock prison, I define your new sexuality. There’s no escape. This is your new life now.

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