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March 17th-21st visit to Goddess Cheyenne in Atlanta!

I will be visiting Goddess Cheyenne in Atlanta March 17th-21st! Solo as well as double Domme sessions are available during this time. As I type this Our schedule is filling up quite nicely. With that said, don’t miss out on your opportunity to session with Us this time around. To arrange servitude, go to www.opulentfetish.com and fill out Goddess Cheyenne’s contact form.

For those of you who’ve only seen the top ranking videos of Us together on clips4sale, this is your chance to serve in person. Goddess Cheyenne put together a great YouTube video for My Atlanta visit. It can be viewed here:

Session booking protocol aka the “how to get down” post

rubberstraponstill3As more and more fresh blood comes into the scene I find it increasingly important to type out this blog. Why is this called the, “Session booking protocol aka the ‘how to get down’ post”? The content of this has been inspired not only by My frequent travels to different cities, but My fellow Pro Dommes tweets, emails, and conversations We’ve had both in person and over the phone. It is inspired by you, potential client-the ones who have a difficult time mustering the courage to book a session. Whether this is your first ever session, or your first ever session with Me; keep reading. There is essential information here!

What do I mean by, “how to get down”? Before the onset of social media and the internet, it was difficult to book a session with a Pro Domina. Potential slaves had to go through all sorts of hoops. There were ads in print magazines. These ads often required a potential slave to send a hand written letter with a self addressed stamped envelope to the Lady you’d like to see. Given the amount of time it took to send this correspondence and be awarded a session, the potential slave wanted to get it right at the first attempt. A proper first impression was required. Sending your interests, boundaries, and health information was paramount. Addressing a Lady by Her preferred title was a part of this interaction. In other words, sessions were an indulgence rather than a compulsion. To “get down”-have a session-protocol was adhered to.

Of course it is currently the digital age. Do you know how lucky you are now, slave? For those of you old enough to remember going through this process, things are obviously much easier. While I’ve been a Pro Domina for 12 years, My frequent travels have awarded Me conversations with those describing how things once were. Currently I have a phone where I can press a button, speak into it, and within seconds I can find anything I desire. Years ago this was not the case. Great efforts and lengths for research had to be made. Our digital age has sadly made so many compulsive and lazy. My intent in writing this is to give extra information, a specific place of reference, and to remind you that even though communication can be instantaneous, you only get one chance to make a first impression. Make sure it’s a good one.

I mentioned social media earlier, and will stress a point. For Me (and I can only speak for Myself here) social media is meant as a gateway. My website is listed in every piece of social media I have. To gain information, all you need to do is go into My profile and click on the link to My website. I don’t negotiate sessions via social media. The planning process over the years for My website has been time consuming. It is important to Me that information to answer many of your questions is clearly listed. This way I don’t have to answer the same set of questions over and over again. I can then focus on what makes you personally tick and craft an experience surrounding where I’d like to take you on your FemDom journey.

By doing this research, you will see the following:

1. How I prefer to be addressed: Mistress Natalya (this is how your correspondence should begin)

2. My preferred method of contact: email to MistressNatalyaSadici@protonmail.com

3. Where I’m currently located and My travel schedule

4. My interests and what absolutely is NOT offered in My sessions

I’m going to give you more detailed information on what should be included in your correspondence and why. It’s important to understand exactly what you’re looking for. Remember: your life is in My hands during the session. I take this responsibility very seriously and you should too.

In your initial email include the following:

1. Proper address of Me-“Mistress Natalya” is a sign of respect

2. Your name-include your first name as well as any social media aliases and message board screen names. Yes, I research you just as you should have done your research on Me.

3. How you heard about Me-I have ads and links everywhere. It’s really wonderful to know which ads are working as well as what information you’ve seen already. It’s not uncommon to hear that another Lady or member of the scene referred you. If that’s the case, I like to thank the person who spoke highly of Me. I can’t give proper thanks unless it’s stated who that person was.

4. What you would like to explore in session, interests, and fetishes-if I have no idea what you’re looking for, I don’t want to pry it out of you. Clear communication is key to having a great session experience. If you’re new, definitely say so! Describing what you think and fantasize about is a huge help. Be specific. Saying, “I want to be Dominated”, is vague and says nothing. Listing specific activities such as: CBT, bondage, or spanking is what I mean here.

5. Limits-these are things I absolutely can’t do to you. Even though My sessions are a power exchange, I take control ethically. Having certain activities that are explored only after developing a rapport is perfectly acceptable. I take great joy in expanding horizons and limits, however, I need to know what your limits are and what can be expanded!

6. Any health issues or medications you’re currently taking-Often the first thing that pops into someone’s mind is, “I don’t have any STDs”. Things such as a previous shoulder injury, bad back, or knees effect bondage positions I may put you into. Taking Cialis, or any other erectile enhancements greatly impacts sessions. I need to know these things to take certain precautions. Even though you may think something is minor, list it. Part of being a scene professional is knowing how different injuries and health issues can impact BDSM exploration. If you aren’t honest and transparent about this, not only do you put yourself at risk, but you put Me and My business at risk.

7. The day, time, and session length desired-I am a full time Professional Dominatrix. Going back and forth about “what works best for My schedule”, is not something I care to get into. Communicating specifically when you’d like to session means you’ll be taken more seriously, and your correspondence will be answered as soon as possible. It often helps to state it in the subject of your email. An example of this is: “Chicago session inquiry 8/25”.  I require a minimum notice of 24 hours for first time sessions. Proper planning is always best. If you’re wanting to session for multiple hours, it’s best to give as much advance notice as possible. I require a deposit for session bookings and go over this process once the session is negotiated.

Be sure to use proper grammar and spelling. Emails to Me must be given the same attention and care correspondence to another business professionals would be given. Type out, “You”. Capitalize, “Mistress Natalya”. Think of the questions you’re about to ask in correspondence, but make sure these questions aren’t already answered on My website.

During our email exchanges, answer ALL of My questions. I have a reason for them. Picking and choosing which questions are answered is disrespectful. Follow My instructions to the letter, and the session will be positive experience. There is no dodging My protocol or working around it. Even if you’re booking a fetish exploration session, you are still giving up power and control because I craft the experience.

I still have My phone number listed in ads and on My website. This is due to knowing technology glitches can occur and I travel frequently. It is never acceptable to text message Me as initial contact. My phone hours are clearly listed on My website. Follow them. If you are calling in lieu of reading My website information, I will quickly end the call. Phone calls are reserved for specific session bookings. If you are unsure of your schedule, don’t call Me.

Goddess Cheyenne has written a wonderful book which not only enables you as a submissive male to make an excellent first impression on a FemDom, but also to recognize fact from fiction in FemDom advertising. I highly suggest reading it, and you can find it here: http://www.amazon.com/Yes-Maam-Submissives-Meeting-Mistress-ebook/dp/B00U8Z11O6/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1439943967&sr=1-1&keywords=Cheyenne+Mack

I look forward to hearing from you, slave, and wish you the best on your FemDom journey.

Visiting NYC June 21st-July 6th!

For a few years slaves have asked, “when are you visiting NYC, Mistress?” My answer now is: June 21st to July 6th! After visiting LA for DomCon with Mistress Michelle Lacy, I thought it was only fair the east coast received a dose of Our sadistic synergy. So, doubles with Mistress Michelle are highly encouraged.

JUNE 21st-27th: We’ll be in NYC at a private apartment in the Times Square area with an arsenal of BDSM gear and wardrobe that only you can expect from two established, professional and super kinky Women. With many dungeons to choose from nearby, there are options for those slaves who prefer dungeon furniture and that kind of a setting.

JUNE 27th-JULY 2nd: We will be in Long Island (with some NYC options available for sessions that are 2 hours minimum during this time). Appointments are available in Mistress Michelle’s private studio as well as an upscale sound-proofed hotel on the Nassau-Suffolk border.

JULY 2nd-6th: I will be presenting three classes for TES Fest! Once the presentation schedule is solidified, I’ll announce the exact dates and times.

I urge you to arrange your session with Mistress Michelle and I in advance. Send an email with, “NYC session” or “Long Island” session to either MistressNatalya@gmail.com or michellelacy85@yahoo.com.

 

DomCon LA May 12th-18th!

MistressNatalyaSadicidungeonlatex I will be in LA for DomCon May 12th-18th and taking sessions on these dates! While I always pack my toy bag with hundreds of feet of rope for all types of bondage scenes; many other items will be packed also. Whips, paddles, canes, electro devices, body bags, and more will be in my suitcase. I highly suggest planning in advance to ensure certain items for your session are included. Double Domme sessions are also possible with Mistress Michelle Lacy and potentially many other fine Ladies during DomCon!

To reserve your session booking be sure to email me at MistressNatalya@gmail.com with the subject line, “LA Session”, and include your desired session day, time, and length.

If you are attending DomCon, I also will be one of the judges for the Pet Show on May 16th at 2pm. Don’t miss out on this wonderful event! I look forward to seeing everyone there.

Video update: Electro ball crushing

electroballcrushstillThe following clip has been added to my clips4sale store:

Electro ball crushing

Mistress Natalya Sadici has restrained her slave firmly with hemp rope to a bondage bed. While reminded of how helpless he is, she applies an electro ball crusher and bands to his cock. The back plate as well as crusher shoots electricity through it! Mistress Natalya has made sure the bands on his cock are in strategic places. All her slave can do is submit to the sensations as she cranks it up. You can hear the slave’s changes in breathing as he’s forced to endure.

Purchase this clip and many others in my store here: http://clips4sale.com/studio/30362

March 26th-29th visiting Goddess Cheyenne in Atlanta

Natalya&LollyfootworshipFrom March 26th-29th I will be traveling to Atlanta to visit Goddess Cheyenne! During this trip We’ll be shooting video content, but some slots are still available for double Domme sessions on March 27th. In order to book your time with Us, go to Her website, www.opulentfetish.com, and fill out Her contact form. Deposits are required to secure your session time.

I am extremely excited to visit Goddess Cheyenne as We share many interests: intricate and inescapable bondage, whipping, OTK spanking, caning, boot and high heel worship, NT, and CBT are a few options you may explore with Us both.

It’s a shame I can’t bring Lolly(the female bottom in the photo) with Me. Something tells Me Goddess Cheyenne would enjoy playing with her as much as I do. Oh well…hopefully next time!

The finale: Peeping bart’s hairbrush punishment

barthairbrushstillThe finale: Peeping bart’s hairbrush punishment is now available in my clips4sale store

Here is a brief description:

Even though the leather straps broke open bart’s backside and bandaids had to be applied, Mistress Natalya Sadici and Mistress Michelle Lacy do not think he’s quite learned his lesson. The hairbrushes come out! Mistress Natalya starts and pays extra attention to bart’s “sweet spots”-delivering blows to his tender areas. Mistress Michelle doesn’t hold back and makes sure he gives a sincere apology before the Ladies demand him to leave.
Given the cold weather of winter, I can think of many of you who could use an ass reddening! If these words are a siren’s call to you, don’t hesitate to contact me for a face to face session.

Peeping bart’s leather strapping: clips4sale update

StrappingbartstillThe following clip has been added to Sadici Studios:

Peeping bart’s strapping
After a thorough OTK spanking in the previous clip, Mistress Natalya Sadici and Mistress Michelle Lacy decide to drive the point home further with leather straps on bart’s ass! Redness and marks start popping up on his backside after their full swings. The Ladies are not through with teaching bart his lesson. The hairbrushes will come out in part 3!

 

Face trample and tease: new clip up!

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I have added the following new clip to my clips4sale store:

Face trample and tease
Mistress Natalya Sadici puts t into a face trample box and crushes his face with her darkly pedicured toes. Close ups of Mistress Natalya’s feet also show t’s nose flattening underneath the pressure. Even if allowed to worship her gorgeous feet and toes, t’s trapped face can’t open his mouth to taste her feet. Such a tease!

So soft yet so mean-new trample clip available

trampletravisframeThe following clip is now available in my clips4sale store:

So soft yet so mean
“How can something so soft be so mean?” t asks Mistress Natalya Sadici as she tramples his cock and balls in the cock box. Her dark pedicured bare feet stomp, kick, and slap his trapped bits as she laughs and smiles. Mistress Natalya doesn’t give t very much of a reprieve as she puts more and more of her weight on his balls.
Go to http://clips4sale.com/studio/30362 to purchase this clip!