Chastity Assignments: Foot Allowance

Chastity Assignments: Foot Allowance

That is your chastity key dangling between My perfectly pedicured toes. As you’ve been following My daily instructions, I’m sure you’re frustrated. Though today’s teasing will work you up into a frenzy! My feet are quite talented and reinforce your place-one where you’re subservient and controlled. With your cage quite rattled, will you ever earn release?

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Inevitable Stripes

Inevitable Stripes

It’s come to My attention you weren’t properly trained. Perhaps your previous experiences in Femdom were ones where you weren’t held accountable for your actions. This changes now! Becoming My slave means learning My standards, adhering to protocol, and discipline for infractions. I don’t walk softly, but I do carry a big stick. Caning isn’t merely taps. Strokes of the cane are hard and meant to correct. This is authentic FemDom and you will be transformed into something of My own design.

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Superior SO

Superior SO

What you have between your legs is disappointing for a variety of reasons. There’s no reason to take pride in it. My strap on is always hard and never has issues with premature ejaculation. I can even swap out whatever length and girth combination I desire. Unlike you, I’m not stuck with such inadequate anatomy. Accept your place and why you’re transfixed by My superior strap on.

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Travel Update: Chicago 4/10-12th and Minneapolis 4/12-15th!

Travel Update: Chicago 4/10-12th and Minneapolis 4/12-15th!

As the weather slowly but surely gets warmer up north and Minneapolis Rubber Ball is on the horizon, I have solidified my travel dates. From April 10th-12th I’ll be visiting Chicago and accepting sessions. I’ll be playing out of Lady Sophia’s Chicago Fantasy Rentals location. As usual it’s always best to arrange sessions with me in advance. I typically bring a variety of rubber bondage items, hoods, CBT devices, electrical toys, and assorted disciplinary aides. This time will be no different, but I always like to be prepared! Get in touch to secure your submission by emailing me at: MistressNatalyaSadici@protonmail.com

From April 12th-15th I’ll be in Minneapolis for the Rubber Ball Visit the website to purchase your tickets. Many of you will see me in the dungeon…teasing, tormenting, and titillating attendees on the 14th. Minneapolis has a great scene with amazingly dressed rubberists!

Pantyhose Imprisonment

Pantyhose Imprisonment

High quality hosiery glides across My silky smooth and shapely legs. There’s no match for the range of denier hosiery companies such as Wolford and Falke produce. The thin material allows you to see much of My skin while feeling heavenly. It draws you in. The hot weather here means My sweat gets trapped in My pantyhose quite easily. Though it’s not enough to simply look at Me wearing pantyhose. I’m going to encase you head to toe in multiple pairs. A prisoner to your fetish, you’ll inhale My aroma in many worn pairs.

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Restraint Realized

Restraint Realized

Being helpless, controlled, and at My mercy floods your thoughts day in and day out. Freedom in restraint-it’s where every aspect of your vanilla life melts away. When your brain shuts off and forces you to be completely present, I have you exactly where I want you. In many ways this is a meditative state-one where I lead and you follow. Of course you are in capable hands.

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Double Sessions in South Florida with Lady Karma 11/25

Double Sessions in South Florida with Lady Karma 11/25!

For a limited time Lady Karma of Atlanta and I will be taking sessions together in South Florida. The Red Russian will be visiting me on 11/25. She and I have a natural synergy for restraining, punishing, and keeping slaves in their proper place. What better way to celebrate, “black Friday” than to have some lasting black and blue reminders on your backside?

To arrange your servitude contact us by emailing either MistressNatalya@gmail.com or Spank@MyLadyKarma.com

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Hard To Get To Know

Hard To Get To Know

Over time I’ve heard it frequently-the comment, “you’re hard to get to know”. I respond with, “yes, I know” and a sly smile. While refusing to take this as some kind of insult, it does shine some light on something I post a bit ago on social media. “Lifestyle public. Personal life private.” The exchange led to discussion about the concept of oversharing. I found it time to put together this entry. Much like anything I post publicly, I put a lot of thought into it knowing once something is post there’s always a way to find it.

Knowledge is very powerful. It can also be a weapon. In my experience disclosing too much information leads to a false sense of camaraderie. The power dynamic gets turned around with a new person thinking we’re pals instead of Mistress and slave. I’m not saying a friendship never blossoms out of a D/s dynamic. Though it is a rare human that doesn’t pull the, “friendship card” when being held accountable for infractions, misdeeds, and other negative behaviors. At the very least this is an annoyance. At the worst it’s outright dangerous with slander, stalking, and physical violence. Trust is built over time and not automatically given. The details of my personal life do not impact my ability to conduct my sessions. It’s called professionalism. Being a Professional Dominatrix requires diving very deeply into fantasies, how someone thinks, having the awareness to read body language, excellent communication, and managing energy-both the client’s and my own. If I don’t have control over myself, how can I maintain control over another human? My best and longest serving slaves tend to be intensely private people. The proverbial, “allure of the hidden” was the initial attraction to my world. Due to a firm grip on privacy, they trust their personal information won’t be bandied about online or shared with outside parties. I would never snap a session photo without explicit consent-even if it wasn’t shared online. It’s called ethics. If I decide to share personal information about myself, that is my choice. I make this choice according to what trust has been built over time. Make no mistake of thinking I’m a private person out of some shame I hold over being a Dominant kinky woman. I love being a professional pervert and am proud of how I make my living. My career has been made out of my lifestyle.

As a lifestyle and professional Mistress, here’s where certain waters get murky. Again, disclose too much information to someone who’s untrustworthy and the outcomes are the same as mentioned earlier. Events are tailored for kinky individuals to meet, share information, learn, and grow as people. This is a beautiful thing, and I have loved my involvement with and attendance at all sorts of kinky events. If it weren’t for these gatherings of like-minded people our interactions would be left primarily to words on a screen. Though the lifestyle is not all wine and roses. Untrustworthy and dangerous people do make it into certain circles. Due to our wanting to accept people for their kinks and increasing costs to throw quality events, it can be difficult if not impossible to ostracize the poisoned apples. The best that can be done is be careful, be aware, trust your instincts, and take time to get to know people. Removing one’s self from negative situations and people is unfortunately looked upon as, “being an island”. There is nothing wrong with taking time for yourself to heal, work on yourself, and make choices that are right for you. I like to say I’m an island-one that has bridges and gates. Through time and experience certain individuals are allowed through. Becoming extremely discerning has meant connections run more deeply.

So, what do I want you to know about me? I’ve thought about this a lot since relocating from Chicago to South Florida over a year ago. Much like any woman who boldly lives life on her own terms and doesn’t seek approval from others, there’s a lot of misinformation about. What I want you to know falls into the value category.
1. Being interrupted or talked over is one of my biggest pet peeves. Not only does it show a lack of self control, but it shows a lack of respect. I discipline harshly for this. In non D/s interactions, I become very quiet to preserve my energy unless my speaking up is very important.
2. I never understand how humans can be bored. My philosophy instructor once said, “being bored means you lack the intelligence to entertain yourself.” A friend in the lifestyle says, “only the boring are bored, darling.” I value active minds, self starters, deep conversations, and those who research all manner of topics. The mind is the most powerful sex organ, and I’m a sapiosexual. Stating you’re, “bored” is a huge turn off.
3. A common misconception is if someone is quiet, they are somehow less or not Dominant. There are times where I’m very quiet due to listening to someone rather than merely hearing the person. Silence is often a great shield against narcissists.
4. Despite being a fetishist, I value experiences and connection over material things. Though if someone shows lack of respect for the things I’ve worked hard for, I do get angry.
5. I am wary of those who state: “I’m a gentleman”, “I hate drama”, “I hate gossip”, “trust me”, and “I am an honest person”. Those who have to make those statements are trying to either convince themselves, me, or both they embody those things or have certain values. Those who are gentlemen, dislike drama and gossip, are trustworthy, and honest live their lives accordingly. They walk the walk rather than needing to make loud proclamations. In saying this, I look for actions as they are far more telling.
6. There is a difference between being territorial and jealousy. If you become my property, I am territorial. This means I am protective of you as you have shown me loyalty, and embody other qualities I value. I am not jealous of what others have. Their hard work and sacrifices mean they’ve earned what they possess. Jealousy is counterproductive to life experience. If there is something desired, it’s paramount to take steps to achieve it.
7. I deplore passive aggressive behavior. Say what you mean, and mean what you say. Passive aggressive behavior undermines trust-the foundation of any kind of relationship. A direct approach is always best.
8. Despite the serious tone of this writing, wit and humor is important to me. Just know your sense of humor may be different than mine.

Travel Update: St. Petersburg, FL August 4th-15th doubles available…

Travel Update: St. Petersburg, FL August 4th-15th

I’ll be attending my first FetishCon this year, and guess who’s coming with me? Elite London Domina Mistress Absolute and I will be accepting solo and double sessions while we’re in the area! With sharp wit, devious devices, fantastic fetish wardrobes, and many years within the industry our sessions are memorable experiences. Some of you may have heard whispers about double caning scenes…our mutual love of Wolford pantyhose and stockings, as well as intricate bondage…

Don’t miss your opportunity to serve us. Be sure to look over both Mistress Absolute and my websites in entirety before making contact to arrange your booking. Initial contact via email is preferred.

Mistress Natalya Sadici:MistressNatalya@gmail.com

Mistress Absolute: max@nixnet.com

 

Travel Update: Chicago June 28th-July 3rd

It’s been a full year since I relocated from Chicago to South Florida. I said I would be back, and I keep my promises. My travel plans have been finalized. I’ll be visiting and taking sessions in Chicago June 28th-July 3rd! My favorite dungeon to utilize in the Windy City is Lady Sophia’s Chicago Dungeon Rentals, so, that is where I’ll take sessions. Be sure to get in contact via email to arrange your time to submit(MistressNatalya@gmail.com). I tend to bring a vast array of: bondage gear, CBT and NT items, electrical gear, domestic disciplinary aides, whips and more whenever I travel. It’s always best to make advance arrangements to ensure both my availability and that I have certain items packed for our session.