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OnlyFans and iwantfanclub

As I’ve slowly and steadily been building up my video content, there have been many slick, shiny, and salacious photos from these shoots. Over time I just held onto them knowing someday they would either be great promotional images, or…I’d do something interesting with them. For those of you who’ve been following my social media you may have noticed updates to both iwantfanclub and now OnlyFans. For the uninitiated, these are subscription based platforms where producers can upload all sorts of content. So yes, you have to pay a monthly subscription in order to access my content!

Though I don’t just have photo sets from video shoots on both platforms. There are:

1. slave training lessons in audio and video format

2. behind the scenes images and videos from various shoots

3. trailers of video releases

and…I have other plans to evolve both platforms as time passes. Do you want to impress me with your loyalty and subservience? Subscribe! Are you unable to serve me in person, but want to contribute to my FemDom journey? Click the subscription button!

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If you’re wondering, “why put content on both platforms? Why not stick to one?” There are different benefits to both platforms. Much like I have content on both iwantclips and clips4sale, I like both platforms for different reasons. This means fans and slaves may enjoy one over the other as well.

Chastity Assignments: Anal Ladder

Chastity Assignments: Anal Ladder

At this point I’ve had you under lock and key for quite some time. Parts of your body you never thought of have become erogenous zones. Light touches become electrifying. Though your attraction to having something in your ass has reached a feverish pitch! Make sure you’ve followed the instructions in Prepared For Use to clean out first.

This what you’ve been waiting for, slave. I’m going to introduce you to the anal ladder. Pace and depth are strictly outlined. Just know if you achieve any kind of relief or release, today will technically be day 1 of your chastity sentence.

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Lessons in CBT: Part 4

Lessons in CBT: Part 4

When we say, “grow a pair” the reference is actually to ovaries and not balls. Those things dangle, are exposed, and vulnerable. Ovaries are hidden and strong. Right now you’re in for quite the challenge, as it may be difficult for you to cum based on My instructions. It will be amusing to see you try! The tie I’m about to teach you will firmly restrain those balls, and yes, you’ll be tugging on it quite a bit.

Make sure you have purchased a thin diameter skein of rope that is not cored. Have Icy Hot on hand, and follow My instructions to the letter.

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Chastity Assignments: The Lockup

Chastity Assignments: The Lockup

This is the first day of the rest of your life, slave. All of that furious fapping leaves you drained, lacking energy, and unfocused on what matters…ME. Sure, you want to play the part of, “slave”, but that term has been bastardized into thinking your orgasm is more important than serving. That’s what a slave does-serve. A slave obeys commands and is property. From now on the only orgasms you’ll have are under my strict supervision. They must be earned. My desires come before your own. What matters most is your brain and the ability your body has to work for me-to contribute to my life in a meaningful way. While locked up you’ll learn about different erogenous zones in which I’ll use to keep you on edge. Eventually I’ll have you fitted into a custom chastity device to ensure the perfect fit. There’s no escape.

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Mangina Workout

Mangina Workout

Despite all your lustful glances at My thick silicone cock, you aren’t ready to take it. I’m not talking about sticking 2 to 3 inches in while giving little thrusts. This time you’re going to prepare to take the whole length of My cock. I want to thrust full force into your mangina. The type of fucking pounding I’m in the mood for will leave you gasping for breath, turned into a melted pile of slut, and barely able to remember your name. Grab the silicone lube I instructed you to purchase. That hungry hole is in for quite the workout.

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Are you a, “fan”? Prove it!

Are you a, “fan”? Prove it!

Merriam-Webster defines, “fan” as, “an enthusiastic devotee (as of a sport or a performing art) usually as a spectator; an ardent admirer or enthusiast (as of a celebrity or a pursuit)”. Many, “ardent admirers” enjoy sending messages regarding their fandom. These exchanges often result in stating things such as:

“I just jerk off to the gifs of your videos but haven’t purchased anything from you. I’m your biggest fan!”

“I’m a HUGE fan of yours. I jerk off to your gifs and social media (insert number of times) a week.”

As I yawn, sipping herbal tea, and going through these messages I’m not impressed. What am I impressed by? If you saw an image on social media, loved it, and then booked a face to face or cam session. I’m impressed by receiving feedback on videos you’ve purchased. I’m impressed if you’ve seen my social media and then called me on NiteFlirt or iwantphone. I’m impressed if you’ve purchased videos, then sent a tip and/or purchased a gift off my wishlist. That is what it means to be a fan. To those of you who have done these things, I thank you. Those actions prove you are an, “ardent admirer” and therefore an actual fan. I love hearing that your video purchases have inspired your wives or girlfriends to take the reigns in your relationships. Also, it’s really hot to think about couples watching my FemDom content!

Education and communication have, and always will be, paramount in both the lifestyle and industry. In the upcoming weeks there will be changes to my website to reflect how important these things are to me. Currently I have embraced the iwantfanclub platform to post some unreleased content. The first audio slave training lesson has been released there. For those who want lessons, tips, and to further learn about my specific preferences I urge you to purchase a membership there. There will not only be audio files and photos, but short videos and written content as well. Of course you may get some behind the scenes peeks into slick and shiny debauchery too.

Here’s hoping the start of 2018 has been wonderful for you.

 

Prepared For Use

Prepared For Use

It’s come to My attention you need proper instruction on preparing yourself. Oh no, I don’t mean simply showering, shaving, and clipping your nails. This is far more extensive. I want to use and violate your holes. This is FemDom from the inside out. Get undressed, slut. In order to be worthy of My superior FemDom cock you need to be clean. Every time I want to use you this process must be followed to the letter.

This instructional video has been long overdue! Purchase this and other Femdom content at Sadici Studios

Rectifying Ineptitude: The Strap

The following clip is now available for purchase in Sadici Studios

Rectifying Ineptitude: The Strap

Questioning Mistress Natalya Sadici’s command is never something a slave should do. When instructed to stand up, bend over the couch, and present his ass, Her slave makes further errors. A leather strap from London Tanners wielded by Mistress Natalya is something Her slave whimpers about! As his left and right butt cheeks receive a thorough thrashing, Her slave quivers. Without a sincere apology for his ineptitude Mistress Natalya will continue…

Accountability

Throughout my time as both a lifestyle and Pro Domina I’ve seen things change and shift. Certain elements have gone for the better, and of course, other things for the worst. In discussing day to day occurrences and highlights with other Ladies in the lifestyle and industry, the topic of accountability has come up frequently. As of late it has been brought up constantly.

To be clear I cherish submissives and slaves. It takes a lot of strength to acquiesce power to another. In any kind of relationship communication-and clear communication-is required. When power is exchanged clear communication is magnified, as the lack of it inherently puts people in danger and not the fun kind. This could be anything from not mentioning taking a new medication to failing to tell me text messaging is no longer ok between certain hours of the day. The latter resulting in compromising my discretion with angry phone calls from a vanilla spouse or lover. Though communication on my end has to occur when you’ve done something wrong. This is where the topic of accountability comes into the picture.

At one point or another all of us have hurt someone we’ve cared about. It takes a lot of strength to admit we’ve done something wrong. It’s awful to be told we’ve failed at a task, forgotten something promised, didn’t do something correctly, or messed up something. Here’s the thing…if you’re submitting to someone and/or being trained as a slave, you will do something wrong at some point in time. Hopefully it’s not on purpose to play games and get attention in a manipulative way! Hopefully the mistake is accidental and not intentional. As a Dominant I will point a mistake out. Atonement will take place. If you’re in my service I expect you to learn from your mistakes. In other words, you will be held accountable for your actions.

I’m not sure why this is such a difficult thing for others to grasp. Lately there has been a lot of lashing out and passive aggressive behaviors taking place. In my aforementioned statements regarding talking with other Ladies, I know I’m not the only one this has happened to. This is why I’m inclined to put together this post. If you’re submitting to a Dominant and being trained, part of training is to consistently strive to be the best submissive and/or slave you can be. There’s a learning process. I learn about your interests, strengths, how you communicate, and other parts of your personality. By putting my energy into being fully present during my interactions with you I see exactly which steps are necessary to shape you into serving me in the best possible way. Since I require you to be present, you must learn about my tastes, how I want things done, and my values. If you slip up, I tell you. It’s a time to realize what you’ve done wrong and change your behavior. It’s never the time to lash out, make excuses, and take out insecurities on me or any Dominant you’re serving. If you’re not held accountable for your actions, there’s no power exchange. It’s not D/s anymore. Lashing out and passive aggressive behavior is not only disrespectful; it undermines trust…trust that you can communicate, that you can learn from mistakes, are accepting and value the D/s dynamic, and don’t inherently have anger issues that could become dangerous.

This brings me back to my point about strength in submission. Being held accountable for your actions can be an emotionally trying thing. Think of it this way: you’re held to certain standards at your job or within your career. When you submit there are certain standards I hold you to as well. While play and submission is cathartic and a lovely escape from the monotony, mundane, and outside stressors of life; in no way should utter escapism and an inability to be held accountable for your actions enter the D/s equation. Doing so has a negative impact on me, and the point of your submission is to make me happy while enhancing my life in some way. To be blunt, if you have a problem with being held accountable, you lack the strength to submit in a positive and effective manner. Work on yourself to have this strength before attempting to submit to me or any other Dominant.

Session booking protocol aka the “how to get down” post

rubberstraponstill3As more and more fresh blood comes into the scene I find it increasingly important to type out this blog. Why is this called the, “Session booking protocol aka the ‘how to get down’ post”? The content of this has been inspired not only by My frequent travels to different cities, but My fellow Pro Dommes tweets, emails, and conversations We’ve had both in person and over the phone. It is inspired by you, potential client-the ones who have a difficult time mustering the courage to book a session. Whether this is your first ever session, or your first ever session with Me; keep reading. There is essential information here!

What do I mean by, “how to get down”? Before the onset of social media and the internet, it was difficult to book a session with a Pro Domina. Potential slaves had to go through all sorts of hoops. There were ads in print magazines. These ads often required a potential slave to send a hand written letter with a self addressed stamped envelope to the Lady you’d like to see. Given the amount of time it took to send this correspondence and be awarded a session, the potential slave wanted to get it right at the first attempt. A proper first impression was required. Sending your interests, boundaries, and health information was paramount. Addressing a Lady by Her preferred title was a part of this interaction. In other words, sessions were an indulgence rather than a compulsion. To “get down”-have a session-protocol was adhered to.

Of course it is currently the digital age. Do you know how lucky you are now, slave? For those of you old enough to remember going through this process, things are obviously much easier. While I’ve been a Pro Domina for 12 years, My frequent travels have awarded Me conversations with those describing how things once were. Currently I have a phone where I can press a button, speak into it, and within seconds I can find anything I desire. Years ago this was not the case. Great efforts and lengths for research had to be made. Our digital age has sadly made so many compulsive and lazy. My intent in writing this is to give extra information, a specific place of reference, and to remind you that even though communication can be instantaneous, you only get one chance to make a first impression. Make sure it’s a good one.

I mentioned social media earlier, and will stress a point. For Me (and I can only speak for Myself here) social media is meant as a gateway. My website is listed in every piece of social media I have. To gain information, all you need to do is go into My profile and click on the link to My website. I don’t negotiate sessions via social media. The planning process over the years for My website has been time consuming. It is important to Me that information to answer many of your questions is clearly listed. This way I don’t have to answer the same set of questions over and over again. I can then focus on what makes you personally tick and craft an experience surrounding where I’d like to take you on your FemDom journey.

By doing this research, you will see the following:

1. How I prefer to be addressed: Mistress Natalya (this is how your correspondence should begin)

2. My preferred method of contact: email to MistressNatalyaSadici@protonmail.com

3. Where I’m currently located and My travel schedule

4. My interests and what absolutely is NOT offered in My sessions

I’m going to give you more detailed information on what should be included in your correspondence and why. It’s important to understand exactly what you’re looking for. Remember: your life is in My hands during the session. I take this responsibility very seriously and you should too.

In your initial email include the following:

1. Proper address of Me-“Mistress Natalya” is a sign of respect

2. Your name-include your first name as well as any social media aliases and message board screen names. Yes, I research you just as you should have done your research on Me.

3. How you heard about Me-I have ads and links everywhere. It’s really wonderful to know which ads are working as well as what information you’ve seen already. It’s not uncommon to hear that another Lady or member of the scene referred you. If that’s the case, I like to thank the person who spoke highly of Me. I can’t give proper thanks unless it’s stated who that person was.

4. What you would like to explore in session, interests, and fetishes-if I have no idea what you’re looking for, I don’t want to pry it out of you. Clear communication is key to having a great session experience. If you’re new, definitely say so! Describing what you think and fantasize about is a huge help. Be specific. Saying, “I want to be Dominated”, is vague and says nothing. Listing specific activities such as: CBT, bondage, or spanking is what I mean here.

5. Limits-these are things I absolutely can’t do to you. Even though My sessions are a power exchange, I take control ethically. Having certain activities that are explored only after developing a rapport is perfectly acceptable. I take great joy in expanding horizons and limits, however, I need to know what your limits are and what can be expanded!

6. Any health issues or medications you’re currently taking-Often the first thing that pops into someone’s mind is, “I don’t have any STDs”. Things such as a previous shoulder injury, bad back, or knees effect bondage positions I may put you into. Taking Cialis, or any other erectile enhancements greatly impacts sessions. I need to know these things to take certain precautions. Even though you may think something is minor, list it. Part of being a scene professional is knowing how different injuries and health issues can impact BDSM exploration. If you aren’t honest and transparent about this, not only do you put yourself at risk, but you put Me and My business at risk.

7. The day, time, and session length desired-I am a full time Professional Dominatrix. Going back and forth about “what works best for My schedule”, is not something I care to get into. Communicating specifically when you’d like to session means you’ll be taken more seriously, and your correspondence will be answered as soon as possible. It often helps to state it in the subject of your email. An example of this is: “Chicago session inquiry 8/25”.  I require a minimum notice of 24 hours for first time sessions. Proper planning is always best. If you’re wanting to session for multiple hours, it’s best to give as much advance notice as possible. I require a deposit for session bookings and go over this process once the session is negotiated.

Be sure to use proper grammar and spelling. Emails to Me must be given the same attention and care correspondence to another business professionals would be given. Type out, “You”. Capitalize, “Mistress Natalya”. Think of the questions you’re about to ask in correspondence, but make sure these questions aren’t already answered on My website.

During our email exchanges, answer ALL of My questions. I have a reason for them. Picking and choosing which questions are answered is disrespectful. Follow My instructions to the letter, and the session will be positive experience. There is no dodging My protocol or working around it. Even if you’re booking a fetish exploration session, you are still giving up power and control because I craft the experience.

I still have My phone number listed in ads and on My website. This is due to knowing technology glitches can occur and I travel frequently. It is never acceptable to text message Me as initial contact. My phone hours are clearly listed on My website. Follow them. If you are calling in lieu of reading My website information, I will quickly end the call. Phone calls are reserved for specific session bookings. If you are unsure of your schedule, don’t call Me.

Goddess Cheyenne has written a wonderful book which not only enables you as a submissive male to make an excellent first impression on a FemDom, but also to recognize fact from fiction in FemDom advertising. I highly suggest reading it, and you can find it here: http://www.amazon.com/Yes-Maam-Submissives-Meeting-Mistress-ebook/dp/B00U8Z11O6/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1439943967&sr=1-1&keywords=Cheyenne+Mack

I look forward to hearing from you, slave, and wish you the best on your FemDom journey.