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I gave one of my minions a research assignment about chastity.

I gave one of my minions a research assignment about chastity.

Since I’m impressed with both his writing and desire to impress me, I wanted to share this information here.

History of Male Chastity

I must disclose that I am writing this research paper under duress. I am in bondage, gagged, my balls are tied down and I am gagged. May I just say that this is an ideal incentive as this paper is, indeed, about the history of male chastity. I, myself, love to be in chastity. The reasons will hopefully become clear after reading this paper.
Usually when one thinks of chastity belts they think of females. After all, we have all heard stories of maidens put in a metal chastity device while her heroic knight goes off to war. In reality, most of these are myths. However, what is not a myth, is the male chastity belt.
If one dives into the history of male chastity, one will find there are two distinct histories. First, there were male chastity belts for health and moral reasons. For instance, it was once thought that masturbation was a sure road to insanity. The other history of male chastity involves a fetish. Many men desire to be in chastity, especially at the hands of a dominant woman. This report will cover history of forced chastity of the Victorian era as well as that of male chastity fetishism.

History of Male Chastity Devices
The first patented chastity device was known as the “self protector”. The device was patented by Daniel Cook in 1870. It was a means of preventing masturbation in children.
In 1907, Ellen Perkins patented the “sexual armor.” Perkins wrote that masturbation was one of the most common causes of insanity, imbecility, and feeble mindedness, especially in youth.
A penis cage was patented by Henry Tunnessen in 1909 to prevent wet dreams by waking the person in case of an erection. I could not find the original patent but a crude picture (Amanda Hess, 2010 An Illustrated History of Male Chastity Devices) resembles an archaic version of Kali’s Teeth, a modern device which is worn around the penis and has metal spikes on the inside causing pain when an erection occurs. `
A full-body approach to prevent the male or female from touching his or her genitals while sleeping was patented by Allan Risely in 1932. The design is extremely complex. If one is interested, the patent number is 1865280. The beauty of this device is that it was constructed to resemble an ordinary sleeping garment so there would be no embarrassment while wearing it.
More recently, in 2004, Gines Sanchez Gomez patented the “protective tube harness.” The patent is described as “a protective tube and harness for the masculine member. The tube continues with a hinge with a hole at their end. A padlock fixes the hinge and the external tube.” In simple terms, this device is very similar to the more current designs by fancy steel (see www.fancysteel.com). This device was important because, from my research, it is the first device, in the words of Gomez, to be designed specifically for “the entertainment field, essentially of erotic-games. Based on my research, this may represent the beginning of male chastity fetishism.

Male Chastity Fetishism
One begs the question, why do (some) men love chastity? There are literally hundreds of products to choose from including metal, plastic, silicone, resin, and smart devices controlled by an app. Chastity kink is a broad spectrum, ranging from foreplay to a full-blown lifestyle in which the keys to the cage are controlled by a partner for days or months. (Abby Moss, Men’s Health, 2021).
Moss also interviewed a man that said chastity made him shift his focus to other erogenous zones such as his nipples and ass since he could not stimulate his penis. On a personal note, I can certainly attest to this. Mistress Natalya Sadici has had me in chastity numerous times. She has taught me how to appreciate rubbing my nipples as well as appreciate anal play (including remote anal play).
Gigi Engle, author of All the F*cking Mistakes: A guide to Sex, Love, and Life”, men may feel pressured by gender norms to behave in certain ways. Chastity can offer a safe escape. “It comes, in part, from a desire to give over control, to escape from your role.”
Kristan X of Lascivity.co.uk has published a great article – A Simple Guide to Male Chastity. In her article, she discusses the top reasons men enjoy chastity:
1. Giving up control
2. It’s humiliating
3. It focuses the mind
4. It’s hot
5. Better (but less frequent) orgasms
For me, it is all about giving up control. I love being controlled by a dominant female. Being in a cage, allows me to be controlled 24/7.

Types of Chastity Cages
It seems that every day there is a new chastity cage available (a better mouse trap so to speak). The first time I decided to try chastity, I became very overwhelmed. I ended up wasting a lot of money buying and trying out cages that did not work for one or several reasons. It was Mistress Natalya Sadici who recommended I buy a custom-made cage from Mature Metal. It was not cheap but it was worth every penny.
The following are some of the more common types of cages:
1. Plastic Cages – To my knowledge these were among the first cages to be mass produced as male chastity became popular on the BDSM scene. The CB chastity devices are still among the most popular. They were invented and patented by Frank and Doris Miller, a husband-and-wife team. The CB 2000 was their first product and they have since released many updated versions. Jon Stewart did a comedy skit on an interview they did. It was supposed to be funny, and I suppose it was to those that do not appreciate being caged. That being said, it is informative as to the reason behind their decision to invent the CB2000. If interested, the website is https://www.cc.com/video/2e49wg/the-daily-show-with-jon-stewart-nut-case.

2. Silicone Cages – These are similar to plastic cages but are a bit more flexible and skin tight. Some of the silicone “cages” are not actually cages. They are toys that fit over your cock to give a firmer or longer-lasting erection.

3. Steel Cages – These are clean and hygienic and also very strict. Again, there are hundreds to choose from. Steel is by far my favorite. They are easier to clean while wearing and also are more inescapable. Personally, I recommend Mature Metal for a custom cage. They have great service. I love my cage (The Queen’s Keep). They also have the option of punishment pins which brings the “fun” to a whole new level. Mark and Rebecca’s “All about Sex” podcast did an excellent interview with William from Mature Metal. It is well worth listening to. There is a link to the interview on the www.MatureMetal.com website.

4. Smart Cages – These are app-controlled cages. The lock can be controlled by a key-holder thousands of miles away. The Cell Mate is the first on the market. This is a great idea but still needs some improvement.

In addition to these “normal” cages, there are also other types of creative cages including, but not limited to sissy cages, vibrating cages, harness cages, nub cages, and cruel chastity cages with spikes, electricity, or ultra-restrictive. There are even custom 3-D printed cages.

Summary and Personal Note
Male chastity has been around since the 16th century but only recently has it taken off as a fetish. The number of manufacturers and brands has grown exponentially since the year 2000. There are designs, colors, materials, and sizes to suit any fetishist. As mentioned previously, I have a strong preference for metal chastity cages, specifically custom made. One will find themselves very frustrated with the wasted time and money trying non-custom models. However, if money is an issue, it may be worth trying one of the less expensive models such as the CB series.
As explained above, there are many psychological reasons that so many men and women love male chastity. The love of being controlled and humiliated are two of the most common reasons. It is a very welcome extension to BSDM play. The key (pun intended) is to find a skilled experienced keyholder. I have been very fortunate to stumble upon Mistress Natalya Sadici of Florida. I would never trust anyone else.
In my research, I did a search for chastity cage patents. The number of patents is overwhelming. It is evident that male chastity fetishism is not a passing fad but is here to stay. I, for one, am very excited about my many chastity experiences to come.

Anal Training For Beginners

Anal Training For Beginners

Certain fantasies you watch on screen are solely jerk off fodder. After your consistent consumption of FemDom videos involving strap on, your curiosity has grown to an all time high. You’ve been craving a thorough ass pounding with my strap on. Though your and others’ bodies don’t work that way. My sluts, subs, and slaves all went through a gradual process of training their asses. Let’s start from the very beginning. I’m not going to humiliate you. I am going to go over key items you need, how you can get started, and some extra tips. Over the years I’ve seen how many have gotten in their own ways regarding anal training. I want you to avoid common pitfalls and be well informed on how to make your fantasy a reality. This will be a valuable resource to reference again and again. Let’s get started!

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The Discontinuation of AVN Stars

The Discontinuation of AVN Stars

Perhaps the title of this blog is a bit misleading. Rather than have a lengthy title, I wanted to grab your attention with an important announcement. As of January 1st, 2022 AVN Stars will cease its monetization features. You can read more about this here:

AVN Stars ceases monetization

If you follow me on Twitter, you may have seen this information already. Do you remember my announcement about starting a Loyal Fans account and mentioning I didn’t want to put all my eggs into one income earning basket? Now you see why. I’m currently having a sad chuckle to myself about a certain male creature. Shortly after my Loyal Fans announcement he attempted giving me business advice with a warning about, “spreading myself too thin”. Not only was his, “advice” not asked for, but he was ultimately proven very wrong. If you aren’t in the adult industry and you’ve not been asked for advice, keep your mouth shut and fingers off your keyboards. There’s a lot behind the scenes many of us are privy to and can see coming. In this case, a few of us saw that AVN Stars wasn’t making changes to comply with MasterCard’s new regulations on adult content. The platforms making changes to adapt and evolve will stay viable. The ones that don’t will fold. Regardless of how all of us feel, we need to pivot. If you want to be helpful, keep reading.

What does this mean for me, Mistress?

If you’ve purchased credits on AVN Stars to subscribe, tip, purchase videos, and/or open PTV content; use them as soon as possible! Creators have to wait 7 business days for funds to go from, “pending” to “available” for withdraws. From the information available at the time of this blog, the cut off for payments to creators is midnight, December 31st EST. To ensure I actually receive your generosity(get paid), use your credits now!

I mentioned earlier the title of this blog is a bit misleading. While video purchases, opening PTV content, subscribing, and tipping won’t be possible after the 31st of this month; free content will still be available. From my current understanding, AVN Stars will be like Twitter-another social media site where you can view free posts. If it doesn’t get shut down completely, this will be a good option in case the proverbial shit hits the fan for Twitter. Only time will tell. I don’t want to speculate too much, but want to inform you of how I intend on using AVN Stars after the 31st.

I urge you to start a Loyal Fans Account This is where I will continue to post my slick, shiny, and debauched FemDom content! Of course I put the really good stuff behind a paywall to reward my loyal subjects. This is also where you can tip(tribute) to show your appreciation, book cam sessions, buy videos, open PTV content, and carry on paid text conversations with me. As with any online platform, DO NOT discuss face to face sessions. This is how platforms get into hot water and start having problems. If you specifically want to discuss face to face sessions with me, email is the way to go about it. Showing your appreciation for my time in reading your emails and responding through tips(tributes) on Loyal Fans is encouraged and welcomed. Hint: I prioritize responses to those who are continuously generous.

 

I look forward to seeing you amidst my Loyal Fans followers and subscribers!

Chastity Assignments: Anal Ladder

Chastity Assignments: Anal Ladder

At this point I’ve had you under lock and key for quite some time. Parts of your body you never thought of have become erogenous zones. Light touches become electrifying. Though your attraction to having something in your ass has reached a feverish pitch! Make sure you’ve followed the instructions in Prepared For Use to clean out first.

This what you’ve been waiting for, slave. I’m going to introduce you to the anal ladder. Pace and depth are strictly outlined. Just know if you achieve any kind of relief or release, today will technically be day 1 of your chastity sentence.

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Lessons in CBT: Part 4

Lessons in CBT: Part 4

When we say, “grow a pair” the reference is actually to ovaries and not balls. Those things dangle, are exposed, and vulnerable. Ovaries are hidden and strong. Right now you’re in for quite the challenge, as it may be difficult for you to cum based on My instructions. It will be amusing to see you try! The tie I’m about to teach you will firmly restrain those balls, and yes, you’ll be tugging on it quite a bit.

Make sure you have purchased a thin diameter skein of rope that is not cored. Have Icy Hot on hand, and follow My instructions to the letter.

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Chastity Assignments: The Lockup

Chastity Assignments: The Lockup

This is the first day of the rest of your life, slave. All of that furious fapping leaves you drained, lacking energy, and unfocused on what matters…ME. Sure, you want to play the part of, “slave”, but that term has been bastardized into thinking your orgasm is more important than serving. That’s what a slave does-serve. A slave obeys commands and is property. From now on the only orgasms you’ll have are under my strict supervision. They must be earned. My desires come before your own. What matters most is your brain and the ability your body has to work for me-to contribute to my life in a meaningful way. While locked up you’ll learn about different erogenous zones in which I’ll use to keep you on edge. Eventually I’ll have you fitted into a custom chastity device to ensure the perfect fit. There’s no escape.

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Mangina Workout

Mangina Workout

Despite all your lustful glances at My thick silicone cock, you aren’t ready to take it. I’m not talking about sticking 2 to 3 inches in while giving little thrusts. This time you’re going to prepare to take the whole length of My cock. I want to thrust full force into your mangina. The type of fucking pounding I’m in the mood for will leave you gasping for breath, turned into a melted pile of slut, and barely able to remember your name. Grab the silicone lube I instructed you to purchase. That hungry hole is in for quite the workout.

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Prepared For Use

Prepared For Use

It’s come to My attention you need proper instruction on preparing yourself. Oh no, I don’t mean simply showering, shaving, and clipping your nails. This is far more extensive. I want to use and violate your holes. This is FemDom from the inside out. Get undressed, slut. In order to be worthy of My superior FemDom cock you need to be clean. Every time I want to use you this process must be followed to the letter.

This instructional video has been long overdue! Purchase this and other Femdom content at Sadici Studios

Rectifying Ineptitude: The Strap

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Rectifying Ineptitude: The Strap

Questioning Mistress Natalya Sadici’s command is never something a slave should do. When instructed to stand up, bend over the couch, and present his ass, Her slave makes further errors. A leather strap from London Tanners wielded by Mistress Natalya is something Her slave whimpers about! As his left and right butt cheeks receive a thorough thrashing, Her slave quivers. Without a sincere apology for his ineptitude Mistress Natalya will continue…

Accountability

Throughout my time as both a lifestyle and Pro Domina I’ve seen things change and shift. Certain elements have gone for the better, and of course, other things for the worst. In discussing day to day occurrences and highlights with other Ladies in the lifestyle and industry, the topic of accountability has come up frequently. As of late it has been brought up constantly.

To be clear I cherish submissives and slaves. It takes a lot of strength to acquiesce power to another. In any kind of relationship communication-and clear communication-is required. When power is exchanged clear communication is magnified, as the lack of it inherently puts people in danger and not the fun kind. This could be anything from not mentioning taking a new medication to failing to tell me text messaging is no longer ok between certain hours of the day. The latter resulting in compromising my discretion with angry phone calls from a vanilla spouse or lover. Though communication on my end has to occur when you’ve done something wrong. This is where the topic of accountability comes into the picture.

At one point or another all of us have hurt someone we’ve cared about. It takes a lot of strength to admit we’ve done something wrong. It’s awful to be told we’ve failed at a task, forgotten something promised, didn’t do something correctly, or messed up something. Here’s the thing…if you’re submitting to someone and/or being trained as a slave, you will do something wrong at some point in time. Hopefully it’s not on purpose to play games and get attention in a manipulative way! Hopefully the mistake is accidental and not intentional. As a Dominant I will point a mistake out. Atonement will take place. If you’re in my service I expect you to learn from your mistakes. In other words, you will be held accountable for your actions.

I’m not sure why this is such a difficult thing for others to grasp. Lately there has been a lot of lashing out and passive aggressive behaviors taking place. In my aforementioned statements regarding talking with other Ladies, I know I’m not the only one this has happened to. This is why I’m inclined to put together this post. If you’re submitting to a Dominant and being trained, part of training is to consistently strive to be the best submissive and/or slave you can be. There’s a learning process. I learn about your interests, strengths, how you communicate, and other parts of your personality. By putting my energy into being fully present during my interactions with you I see exactly which steps are necessary to shape you into serving me in the best possible way. Since I require you to be present, you must learn about my tastes, how I want things done, and my values. If you slip up, I tell you. It’s a time to realize what you’ve done wrong and change your behavior. It’s never the time to lash out, make excuses, and take out insecurities on me or any Dominant you’re serving. If you’re not held accountable for your actions, there’s no power exchange. It’s not D/s anymore. Lashing out and passive aggressive behavior is not only disrespectful; it undermines trust…trust that you can communicate, that you can learn from mistakes, are accepting and value the D/s dynamic, and don’t inherently have anger issues that could become dangerous.

This brings me back to my point about strength in submission. Being held accountable for your actions can be an emotionally trying thing. Think of it this way: you’re held to certain standards at your job or within your career. When you submit there are certain standards I hold you to as well. While play and submission is cathartic and a lovely escape from the monotony, mundane, and outside stressors of life; in no way should utter escapism and an inability to be held accountable for your actions enter the D/s equation. Doing so has a negative impact on me, and the point of your submission is to make me happy while enhancing my life in some way. To be blunt, if you have a problem with being held accountable, you lack the strength to submit in a positive and effective manner. Work on yourself to have this strength before attempting to submit to me or any other Dominant.